To love and be loved in return

We can learn that the essence of love is not to use the other to make us happy but to serve and affirm the ones we love. And we can discover, to our surprise, that what we have needed more than anything was not so much to be loved, but to love,.... and be loved in return.

Interdependence is the circle of life. In giving you shall receive. Those who discover the quality of interdependence in their lives are those whose work becomes nurturant of community and earth, and who devote themselves to this work - which is often their children - with the fervor of a soul that feels so connected to the universe that every act of creation - in art or life work, and sacrifice and nurturance vibrates throughout every tender line of children life's vast web.

Women Warrior, dances interdependently with their partners, without fear of losing their self to the other or fear of the other. Without love, trust or respect for the other, there will not be a whole creation. To share a divine creation, there is no superiority or inferiority, no imbalance, in the couple's sacred duties as soul mates - the two giver of life,... like water nor land are capable of bearing fruit without the other. Loving your spouse, as they are, with each one in their journey caring for creation, in his way, the other in hers, but believing without fear, suspicions and distrust towards each others role, to fulfill the tasks as interdependent camaraderie, as well as a loyal partner serving the other unconditionally. If you have established the interdependence dance of faith and trust in your life companion, as I have with my life partner, Mohd Radzi Ramus Kaltoft, then in the blinking of an eye, the whole creation - our children will be formed through our love.

And so again, in giving you shall receive. I stand firmly, a warrior to protect, defend and support with loyalty to my husband's endeavors as he would for me. This is the most crucial principle of building a happy family. A happy family creates happy and secure little people in the world. So no matter how busy and challenging life may be with each of you in your individual work for creation,... family, the world and God. As long as you are loving your partner (or the colleague, team, friend, family member...) , and is loved in return, interdependently and unconditionally, in whatever life calling situation, or through ups and down, and changes of season, ... your children, your heaven is secure as they feel safe and balance holistically in the Garden of Eden you have provided with love for them.

Alhamdulillah.